It is then clear that you have no other option beside #4: Copy photos as Digital Negative (DNG) and add to catalog.
This doesn't say it will move and it doesn't say where it will copy neither. So, as I just said in my previous message, you have to set the next three lines properly.
If you want your DNGs to be kept within the same folder as your originals, in the second line "Copy to:", you have to choose the very same folder from where your originals are coming from. A BIG DRAWBACK: You have to change or check this for each import! Then, in the "Organize:" line, as you do not want to choose "Into one folder". "By original folders" may be confusing as it will create subfolder(s). Now, as you still want to keep with originals, the next line "Put in subfolder:" should not be checked. It think this last one is self explanatory...
As you see, lossless compression is a preference. What is best depend on how much you are paranoïd in my opinion. One can be afraid by the word compression on one side but it says lossless on the other side. I myself prefer to save space and opted to adopt the lossless compression. If my memory serve me well, I think that the difference is in the shape of the gamma curve in the very dark levels where it is linear for a tiny part.
For previews, there is no best choice because it depends on your work flow. I myself generally start working on my images right after import so my choice is 1:1 BUT, in the preferences I have the setting to discard 1:1 previews after 3' days on my desktop. If I do field work on the laptop, I know I won't be working images on this machine but I may want to show images as soon as they are taken. In this case, my choice is Standard or Minimal.