Russ, you need to understand the way that Adobe has typically worked in the past in relation to bug-fix and new camera support updates. I guess on average the "dot" releases appear at around three monthly intervals, although that can be shorter (or longer) if there are some critical bugs which need to be fixed. Occasionally there'll be a "double-dot' release (such as the 6.0.1 update) which are for special cases and follow no specific pattern.
With that in mind, it's possible that a 6.1 update might not be released for another couple of months, and even then there'll be no guarantee that this particular problem will be fixed in that update. Adobe will naturally need to prioritise their resources to ensure the more urgent/critical bugs are tackled first, and this particular problem is unlikely to be placed in that category. Irritating it may be to you, but the workaround simply involves a couple of additional mouse-clicks....so unless it's a quick and easy fix I wouldn't be surprised if it's classified as low priority.
If you seriously want a refund, you'll need to contact Customer Support. There's normally a 30-day refund policy with new versions, so check with them.