OK, I must tbe doing something incorrectly, see if these steps give a clue...
I logged out last night, just to make sure.
This morning I did not use the link in the e-mail, I explicitly went to
www.lightroomqueen.com/community.
The screen that opens shows "Welcome guest" and all the little icons are grey indicating nothing new, consistent with being guest I presume.
I logged in. Yes, the login time is apparently cumulative.
Now the icons to the left show grey and dark consistent with the times of the last post.
But when I click "Show unread posts" I get "Pages [1]" and "No messages".
I then hit "home" -- I see the grey/dark icons still as expected on the forum indexes.
I clicked on the icon to the left of "Lightroom General" which was dark -- mack to the "no unread topics found since your last visit, click here to try all unread topics". I clicked "here" and got "no messages".
Back to home. Lightroom general still shows dark icon. I click the forum name to get them all.
Now (ignoring the pinned one) the top 6 topics show bold date/times on the right, indicating presumably unread by me. Though one of them shows "Yesterday at 1':16:1' am" which is way before I last logged in.
And every topic on the first screen shows a "new" icon.
Was there something I was supposed to do to get all this started, to set some defaults for unread or something?
Just to see if it helps, I am right now doing a "mark all messages read" and logging out, and will check back later today and see if maybe that primed the process or something.