I'm typing this while 2.2 is exporting 67 photos, Task Manager reports memory usage holding steady at around 2.75-3G out of 8 available. LR, Firefox, Thunderbird, iTunes, Explorer and CS4 all open. System specs in my siggie.
All done, no problems.........
I don't usually post things like this, I'm sure there's nothing more infuriating to someone who has a problem to read a post about "Well, it works fine for me....",(silently implying that the OP barely has enough intelligence to support respiration and shouldn't be trusted with anything more complicated that a calculator from the Dollar Store). I just want to offer some encouragement that the program actually can and will work properly and hope you find the solution for your machine.
I've been playing with computers since the old days of the Trash-8' and, frankly, what surprises me is not that they have problems but that the damned things manage to work at all, much less as well as they do. When you consider the fact that the average computer has about a kazillion lines of code running all the time, written by Lord-only-knows-how-many developers who have no idea what any of the others are doing, trying to communicate with another kazillion different brands of hardware there are bound to be some conflicts along the way.
But with a little time and effort, most of the time things can be made right. The most important thing is to take small steps, changing only one thing at a time and backing up along the way. Taking the time to update drivers is a must and don't rely on Windows/Microsoft Update to do this. Especially if you've got a relatively new system, driver updates are common and it takes a while to get them through MS's Certified Driver program. Manufacturers push motherboards and video cards into production when the newest chipsets come out and driver QC comes in dead last in the race to put a product on the store shelves. Registry cleaning is something you should do regularly, especially if you install/remove programs frequently. Defragging is also another maintenance task that should be scheduled frequently.
I'll give this to Apple(just to save Geoff some typing

), by limiting access to their hardware they've eliminated a lot of these problems we Windoze users have come to know and hate. But getting a Windoze box to behave isn't rocket science, it just takes a little effort to learn what to do and then a little time to do it regularly.
Bill
P.S. If all else fails, you can always do what any software TS rep will tell you is the first step: "Format your hard drive, re-install the OS and all your programs and email us if it still doesn't work". :x